I just got back from seeing my foreign girlfriend, and while it was difficult in many aspects, at least I got some sex.
I was worried if I was going to be able to perform well. I stopped jerking off for about a week before I left. I had some 20mg Cialis from before, and I got some 10mg with the idea of not using any more than I really needed. All these things give me a headache, Cialis a little bit less than Viagra.
I was pretty nervous the first time so I took the 20mg Cialis. I did get a headache but it went OK. I told my girlfriend no way was I going to be able to do it with a condom on so she was on birth control pills. We did it again after 24 hours I think, then I tried after 48 and it had totally worn off. (I upset her and she went through one of her crying spells, which didn’t help.) I went through another cycle with the 20mg, then tried the 10mg, and then went without and was doing fine. Toward the end we did it, she went to sleep and about an hour later I had an erection again.
I have a lot of anxiety with having sex, and I think your body has to adapt to new stimuli if you haven’t done it in a long time. I was worried I was just having age-related erectile dysfunction, but was able to get going again with some practice. I know I can do it at least every 24 hours and possibly twice in a row, although I didn’t get a chance to test that out.